Monday, June 28, 2010

JUne 29

2 Sam 14:25-33

25 Now in all Israel there was no one to be praised so much for his beauty as Absalom; from the sole of his foot to the crown of his head there was no blemish in him. 26When he cut the hair of his head (for at the end of every year he used to cut it; when it was heavy on him, he cut it), he weighed the hair of his head, two hundred shekels by the king’s weight. 27There were born to Absalom three sons, and one daughter whose name was Tamar; she was a beautiful woman.

28 So Absalom lived two full years in Jerusalem without coming into the king’s presence. 29Then Absalom sent for Joab to send him to the king; but Joab would not come to him. He sent a second time, but Joab would not come. 30Then he said to his servants, ‘Look, Joab’s field is next to mine, and he has barley there; go and set it on fire.’ So Absalom’s servants set the field on fire. 31Then Joab rose and went to Absalom at his house, and said to him, ‘Why have your servants set my field on fire?’ 32Absalom answered Joab, ‘Look, I sent word to you: Come here, that I may send you to the king with the question, “Why have I come from Geshur? It would be better for me to be there still.” Now let me go into the king’s presence; if there is guilt in me, let him kill me!’ 33Then Joab went to the king and told him; and he summoned Absalom. So he came to the king and prostrated himself with his face to the ground before the king; and the king kissed Absalom.

Blog Discussion Question : What do you think about Absolom’s burning of Joab’s field?

1 comment:

Pastor Jerry said...

A classic example of poor management of conflict. Rather than speaking directly and ironing things out, Absolom "got" Joab. Remember Jesus' instructions when someone has wronged you...much better than Absolom's.....first talk directly to the person, if that doesn't work bring someone with you to talk to them, and if that doesn't work bring the community into the situation. It might be harder to work things out directly, but it always produces a better result!